I do not like to come to this site for personal advice, but it is a matter that affects not me, but the life of another person and the greater good of my neighbors with whom we share this building. You see, when you live in a big city apartment building, especially one that is downtown, you grow to care about and for your neighbors just as they do the same for you. However, the implications for one person involved are considerable and that is why I wanted to seek out opinions before making the next move.
If you ever wake up here at around 2 or 3 in the morning, you may hear what at first sounds like a domestic dispute. There is anger; violent shouting and extreme weeping between what you may believe to be two people. But if you listen a little more carefully, you quickly learn that this terrible fight is being carried out by one person.
The building is in very close proximity to another so it's hard to judge just where it is coming from. I was worried enough about this person that I wanted to make sure someone was aware of it. This even I bumped into our building superintendent at a store and mentioned this to him, and to my surprise I learned that the man in question is a resident on the top floor of our building who has a mental condition (of course he would not disclose it to me). I told him that it is not a complaint and I am not worried ABOUT him, but worried FOR him. I am worried that he is alone with no one to make sure he stays on his medication and is a risk to himself. He asked me to keep him posted and consider putting something down in writing which would begin a process that leads the tenant to getting more help. I'm torn at the moment. I do believe that I am "my brother's keeper" and want to make sure he is ok. But at the same time, I do not know the true extent of his illness and I do not want to needlessly interfere in his life or inadvertently get him evicted. So I am come to you tonight to seek your pearls of wisdom and to take care of yourselves and each other. Thanks.
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